I ordered this wolf shaped male chastity cage for my husband. This is the first we’ve used but are thoroughly impressed by the sleek, soft material and the standout design. This isn’t a simple cage, it’s a statement piece that gives you the little tingle knowing your lover is wearing it. The packaging was discreet and very beautiful, it felt like we were opening up a precious gift- which we were, to ourselves. The instructions are clear and concise for newbies like ourselves and the adjustable rings ensure a secure fit for any size. That was something we were wondering about re: fit. Follow the instructions and play around with the rings until it fits comfortably and cannot slide off (ring is too big). We especially like the inclusion of temporary or “travel” keys for safety. We’re using this for personal fun, not to ensure fidelity etc. so the travel keys may not work for everyone since it’s not a true “lock”. Personally I love locking the cage and carrying the key around my neck. We were concerned about potential bulging wearing this in public, but in all honesty, if pants aren’t super tight or skinny there is nothing to see unless you know it’s there and then you *might* be able to make out the slightest pointy ears. In my case I love that because it’s foreplay reminding I have him all locked up lol. For his experience wearing it longer term (than just during play), using the restroom required him to sit to go to the bathroom rather than stand since he didn’t have as much control over his stream, expected and not a big deal. He also made sure to always thoroughly clean it as much as possible afterwards, so carrying wet wipes would come in handy if going out or wearing long term to ensure maximum bathroom cleanliness. As for the fun? Incredible. If you’re even thinking about getting this for yourself or your man, do it. You won’t regret it even if it stays in the bedroom. Overall we’re super impressed with this company and their product and will probably order other items for our personal collection. I know love day has passed but this would make a great gift too- especially for my fellow lovers of monster romance novels (iykyk). The key and lock is a real metal, no cheap plastic that you’ll have to worry about breaking off. I’d say this is great for beginners since it’s not super disruptive if wearing long term, especially just for a day or night. Any longer than that I’ll have to report back. Again I love the idea of him wearing this even just around the house or when he’s out for a bit. You can send special pictures to remind him that you hold the key and maybe if he’s good you’ll let him out to play (;)).